We live in a culture which sets the majority of us up to be losers in some artificial contest or another. And what is worse, we often tend to believe that our failures to win at goals or relationships might mean that we are failures as human beings. If you fail at something, does it make you a failure? Are we what we do….or are we more? And what does this all have to do with our struggling spirituality? And with our joyful, crazy, ebbing and growing, spiritual community?